Going to a popular night club is often a good place to find a date. If there is a band playing, this offers an opportunity to meet someone. Many times women go to clubs in groups, and it can be difficult to get them alone to talk. When the band begins to play, this is an opportunity. The best way is to step up to a table full of women and ask if any of them would like to dance. The person asking will often find a dance partner without eliminating any potential dates at the table. Dancing together is a social activity and gives both people an opportunity to chat. This will help them decide if the dance will or will not lead to a date.